Sometimes, teens struggle to understand others’ points of view. Whether it is a lack of experience, of empathy, of good listening skills or of mutual interest, teens do not always understand situations and may come to conclusions which are self-serving, indifferent or seemingly cold-hearted.
Although American society encourages individuality, it can also become self-centeredness. Everyone, including teens, needs to develop empathy and compassion for others.
Too often many teens focus on themselves, steering conversations toward themselves and the events of their lives. When interacting with others, these people do not necessarily realize how involvement with others concerns them.
Self-centered teens fail to show interest, concern or empathy for their peers. Such character traits are repugnant to others and must be changed to develop persons with broader points of view, increasing tolerance and respect, eventually leading to mutually beneficial relationships.
Today’s social media enable egotistical people, allowing them to post pictures of themselves and constantly share their thoughts: Twitter, Instagram and Facebook promote public displays of shallow opinions and impulsive behavior.
Such self-serving individuals are narcissistic in the dullest form, obsessively preoccupied with themselves. They often find it difficult to possess or maintain traits of understanding and compassion.
Self-obsession and apathy toward others are unflattering and repulsive. Such traits discourage healthy relationships and a broader concern for others as a whole. Self-absorbed individuals must learn to see others’ perspectives and show interest in someone else’s life. Doing so ultimately benefits all parties and encourages worthwhile interaction to create a harmonious and peaceful world.
